A handsome, middle-aged man walked quietly into the cafe and sat
down.
Before he ordered, he couldn't help but notice a group of younger men
at the table next to him.
It was obvious they were making fun of something about him,
and it wasn't until he remembered he was wearing a small pink ribbon
on the lapel
of his suit that he became aware of what the joke was all about.
The man brushed off the reaction as ignorance, but the smirks began
to get to him.
He looked one of the rude men square in the eye, placed his hand
beneath the ribbon and asked, quizzically,
"This?". With that the men all began to laugh out loud. The man he
addressed said, as he fought back laughter,
"Hey, sorry man, but we were just commenting on how pretty your
little ribbon looks against your blue jacket!"
The middle aged man calmly motioned for the joker to come over to his
table, and invited him to sit down.
As uncomfortable as he was, the guy obliged, not really sure why.
In a soft voice, the middle aged man said, "I wear this ribbon to
bring awareness about breast cancer.
I wear it in my mother's honor." "Oh, dude. She died of breast
cancer?"
"No, she didn't. She's alive and well. But her breasts nourished me
as an infant,
and were a soft resting place for my head when I was scared or lonely
as a little boy.
I'm very grateful for my mother's breasts, and her health."
"Umm", the stranger replied, "yeah". "And I wear this ribbon to honor
my wife", the middle aged man went on.
"And she's okay, too?", the other guy asked. "Oh, yes. She's fine.
Her breasts have
been a great source of loving pleasure for both of us,
and with them she nurtured and nourished our beautiful daughter 23
years ago.
I am grateful for my wife's breasts, and for her health."
"Uh huh. And I guess you wear it to honor your daughter, also?"
"No. It's too late to honor my daughter by wearing it now.
My daughter died of breast cancer one month ago. She thought she was
too young to have breast cancer,
so when she accidentally noticed a small lump, she ignored it.
She thought that since it wasn't painful, it must not be anything to
worry about."
Shaken and ashamed, the now sober stranger said, "Oh, man, I'm so
sorry mister".
"So, in my daughter's memory, too, I proudly wear this little ribbon,
which allows me the opportunity to enlighten others.
Now, go home and talk to your wife and your daughters, your mother
and your friends.
And here . . ." The middle-aged man reached in his pocket and handed
the other man a little pink ribbon.
The guy looked at it, slowly raised his head and asked, "Can ya Help
me put it on?"
This is breast cancer awareness month. Do regular breast self
exams and have annual mammograms
if you are a woman over the age of 40. And encourage those women you
love to do the same.
Please send this on to anyone you would like to remind of the
importance of breast cancer awareness.
A CANDLE LOSES NOTHING BY LIGHTING ANOTHER CANDLE.
Did you know that men suffer from breast cancer too?

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